A lung cancer diagnosis affects the whole family. It brings physical challenges, but the emotional impact can feel just as overwhelming. That’s why it’s so important to take care of both your body and your mind.
For Andrew Bessant, support came in the form of a short break by the sea. With help from a Roy Castle Lung Cancer Foundation patient grant, he and his wife were able to step away from the day-to-day and recharge.
His daughter Charlotte explains:
“It was really easy to apply for a lung cancer patient grant for my dad.
“We found Roy Castle Lung Cancer Foundation through a Google search. I was looking for a lung cancer charity to support. When I visited the website, I saw the amazing support they offer, including financial help.
“We filled in the form and received the grant soon after. Dad used the money to take my mum, Judith, away for a weekend in a lovely hotel in Bournemouth. It was his first trip since his diagnosis, and he felt so grateful.
“I think it helped all of us. As Dad’s carer, I really needed that time too. His diagnosis had a big impact on my mental health. It’s something no family wants to go through, but it helps to know support is out there when you need it.
“Dad was diagnosed in February 2022. He first coughed up blood in January and went for an x-ray. That’s when doctors found a shadow on his lung.
“At first, we thought they had caught it early. He was booked in for surgery at St George’s Hospital in London. Then we found out the cancer had spread to his lymph nodes. His diagnosis changed from stage 3 to stage 4, which was devastating.
“The surgeon removed as much of the cancer as possible from his lung, but we now face an incurable diagnosis.
“After surgery, Dad started chemotherapy. He had treatment in cycles, followed by a three-week break. He lost his hair at first, but later switched to a different type of chemotherapy where he didn’t lose it, so it has grown back.
“His latest scans show some positive news. The tumour has shrunk from 22cm to 16cm. However, the lymph glands in his chest are still swollen, so we are waiting to hear what happens next.
“For now, we focus on each day as it comes. We’re doing okay, all things considered. The grant and the trip gave us a real boost and helped us feel more positive.
“Lung cancer care comes in many forms. For us, that time away meant everything.”